Sunday, August 31, 2008

School Shopping

(Warning: long blog entry!)

The past week Lynn and I, together with Lizette (MCC Bolivia director) visited nine different schools in Santa Cruz. We saw quite the spectrum of options, ranging from the next-to-our-house Methodist school, to a large (3,000 students) Catholic school, to an all English speaking prep school that costs $5,000/year (not really an option, but we went just out of curiosity). Our hope has been to find a Bolivian school that would give our children a chance to study in Spanish and experience Bolivian culture, have an educational philosophy and class sizes we feel comfortable with, AND fall within a reasonable price range for the MCC budget and avoid a completely elitist environment. So, quite the objective!! Maybe we are too idealistic, but believe it or not, we found a school that seems to meet our criteria.

But first a bit about the schools we visited. Admittedly, this may be more detail than some of you want, but because others have asked, we’ll include it here. We compiled a long list of schools based on recommendations from everyone we could think to ask. Most were private, partly because publicly funded schools here have large classes and a very rigid style of education, and partly because we didn’t feel right using up resources designated for Bolivian children (I’m not sure if we could even get into a public school if we wanted to).

We visited several Catholic schools – Catholics have a long history in education in Latin America. Several of them were fairly humble: 30-40 children in a classroom, very little hanging on the walls, rows of desks facing a blackboard. It seems like dictation is a primary form of learning. We saw lots of first graders making rows and rows of letters and words in their notebooks, copying from the blackboard – not exactly what we had in mind. Another Catholic school we visited had 3,000 students in an amazing facility that was meticulously landscaped and included lots of outdoor space and an indoor pool. We visited several other private schools sponsored by the Methodist church and the Baptist churches. It was inspiring to see meet so many different administrators and teachers committed to education and opportunities for children. We visited the English speaking school (not the $5000/year one) that MCC children have traditionally been attending. Currently there are five MCC kids there and so initially it is where we thought that Nathan would be attending. It is a modest, yet comfortable facility that seems very committed to helping the child that is outside of his/her culture. Nathan was initially registered there and so when we visited the first grade room, we saw his name on an empty desk and it choked me up a bit. We are sure it is a good education, but the disadvantages we see are the distance (it is about 30-45 minutes from the MCC office) and we also feel like our kids would have a much harder time learning Spanish if they are in an English school environment all day.

"De la Sierra"
We are really pleased that the school we decided on is about six blocks from our current house and about a 10-15 minute walk from the MCC office. It is called De la Sierra Colegio Internacional. We appreciate the flexibility and openness of the administrators and teachers. In the first grade room, we noticed that the children were sitting around tables rather than rows of desks and they were doing their own original writing in journals (reminiscent of kid-writing in Nathan’s kindergarten last year) as opposed to copying something from the blackboard. In talking with the teacher, we liked the educational philosophy (they used the word “constructivism” to describe it—that caught Lynn’s attention!). Class size was a very positive thing too—15-20 kids in a room, and the cost is within budget. Of course, it all remains to be seen once we really get there, but our initial impressions are positive.

On Friday we took Nathan and Maria to visit. Nathan was fairly reluctant. For example, he refused to get dressed for a time, but then eventually got moving when we promised a treat on the way home. Believe me, these days we are not above bribery. Maria was actually eager to visit, but I believe she is a bit naïve about it all. We wouldn’t be in such a hurry to get Maria started in school, but the advantages of having them start at the same time seem important. The preschool room where Maria will be and the kindergarten room where Nathan will be are right beside each other and open into the same outdoor play area. So they will have chances to see each other and the teachers can easily communicate with each other. Nathan’s teacher speaks some English. The Bolivian school year is February to November so the administrator suggested having them “audit” the last two months of this current year. Then in February, Nathan will enter first grade and Maria, preK.

So our plan is to have Nathan work with a tutor for the next two weeks and then have them both start at De la Sierra on Mon. Sept. 15th. The school day is 7:30 am-12:40 pm. A little shorter for Maria. They pack a snack, but come home for lunch. The half day schedule is consistent throughout all the schools (except the American systems). It holds a lot of appeal for us because it gives the kids some down time at home and some time to do a little English work too.

So, like Lizette told us, getting our family situated and stable is valid and important work right now. I think she said something like “stable families make stable programs.” We’re grateful for the support from MCC as we’ve worked at this. We’ll take it one day at a time and see how things unfold.

~Laurie

Sunday, August 24, 2008

Maria's arm

Friday evening Maria was playing at the MCC office along with some other children. They were swinging on the wash line pole and having a good old time until Maria slipped and fell on her back. Long story short, this afternoon we learned that she broke her humerus (upper arm bone) and needs to be in a sling cast for about four weeks. Since Friday evening she has been in a lot of pain every time her arm got jolted and we now wish that we would have taken her to the hospital sooner... but live and learn. She feels a lot better with the immobilizing bandage on and we’ll hopefully get a sling tomorrow. It is her left arm so it shouldn’t interfere with eating or anything else, but it will pose a dilemma for thumbsucking at night. (Left thumb is her preferred!) Wow…not an experience that we were looking for in our first ten days in Bolivia, but in Nathan’s words, “it is a little cool that Maria is the first one to break a bone in our family.”

Here are a few pictures.
Laurie


Checking out the x-rays!


Here is the broken humerus! Our doctor told us it would heal fast.


Getting the immobilizing bandage.


Showing it off!

Saturday, August 23, 2008

Trust

Thanks for your responses to our blog! It’s nice to hear from you and feel your care from far away. Makes the world feel smaller – so take a minute and leave a comment here or send us a short email at lynnandlaurie@gmail.com if you prefer. And it's great to hear about your lives too.

Here’s a story:
Last night I went to get some groceries. It would be a long walk, especially at night and with groceries, and the taxi was only 7 Bolivianos (7B = $1), so it seemed like a good time for a taxi. When I got to the store I realized all I had were “big” bills (100B = about $15). The taxi driver suggested I get smaller change in the store. So I went inside and gave a 100B bill to the cashier who gave me 10B back. I was waiting for the rest, but then he asked me if I’m going to buy something. I said I was and he said he’d just credit the rest toward my bill when I came through to pay. Seemed a bit unorthodox, but what do I know, so I went out and paid the taxi driver and then continued on to do my shopping. As I shopped, I began to wonder if the clerk who had taken my money would still be there when I went to pay. I shouldn’t have worried – when I got to the checkout, there he was. “You gave me 90B already, right?” he asked. “You got it,” I said. Sometimes you just have to trust people. Like the taxi driver had trusted me when I went into the store “to get change.”

It’s hard enough to trust people in your own culture. Being new in a culture, a significant struggle is feeling a lack of control. There are so many things we don’t understand, or don’t fully understand… many times when we have to depend on others. We have great support within MCC and many known people we can trust, but eventually you end up on your own in situations where you have to trust people you don’t know, while trying not to be naïve. There will be times I get burned, but it’s nice to notice the times when I don’t.

Lynn

Sunday, August 17, 2008

First days in Bolivia...

Saludos de Santa Cruz, BOLIVIA!
A relaxing Sunday afternoon gives us a chance to update our blog. It has been quite a whirlwind of a week—we arrived here in Santa Cruz on Wednesday morning after a night flight from Miami. We landed first in La Paz, Bolivia and glimpsed the snow capped Andes mountains before flying another hour or so to Santa Cruz. It was great to see some familiar faces waiting for us at the airport. Lizette Miranda and Cesar Flores are the MCC reps (directors) here and we’ve enjoyed catching up with them and seeing how much their kids have grown.

We are currently staying in a house about a ten minute walk from the MCC office. After some time to rest, our days have been full of orientation activities. Here is a sampling—learning to ride the “micros”—mini buses around the city; meeting and greeting the large MCC staff—both support staff, administration and other international volunteers; studying the map of Santa Cruz trying to get our bearings and learning about the different neighborhoods where we might be able to live; getting very sandy digging and building in the sandbox in the middle of the green and spacious MCC office compound (that would be Jesse!); tasting salteñas--a traditional Bolivian empanada-like treat filled with chicken, vegetables, and a sauce that can be quite messy to eat; following Doña Raquel around the local markets learning about where to buy fresh pineapples, toothpaste, birthday party supplies, and almost anything imaginable; learning about the political and geographic divisions in the country and for that matter, the challenges and changes underway in the MCC Bolivia program; the list could go on.

While we are in these orientation activities, Nathan, Maria and Jesse have been spending time with Juana, a veteran child care worker for MCC Bolivia. She is warm and caring and has connected well with the kids despite the language barrier. I think she is also winning them over with candy and popsicles, which wins her big points with our kids. We are very grateful that the first few days have gone well in that regard. I suspect this transition may be harder for me than for them and I do look forward to being more part time after our orientation is over.

Things we are pondering--- where to live and how to balance a reasonable commute to the MCC office (close to downtown) with a neighborhood that matches MCC’s style of living/working; how we can best enter into our roles here being sensitive to the large amount of change and restructuring that the MCCers have experienced in the past year; and finally we are hoping to make some progress on finding a school for Nathan. So we will attempt to relax and have faith that things will slowly fall into place.

Thanks for reading! We are grateful for your thoughts and prayers! Below are some picures of the house we're living in, and the central plaza in downtown Santa Cruz.
~Laurie





Also, here's a little video to show you around our kitchen:

Monday, August 11, 2008

Jeff and Soila's wedding

On our way to Bolivia, we made a one week stop in Honduras for my brother Jeff and Soila's wedding. It was held at Monte Carmelo, a church camp outside of Tegucigalpa, Honduras. The weather was lovely with sunny, clear blue skies. I loved the calla lillies that Soila carried. Nathan and Maria both had part in the wedding and Lynn and I, along with some of my relatives, sang two hymns from the Mennonite hymnal. It was great to have some of my aunts and uncles and cousins travel to Honduras for the wedding. We all enjoyed meeting Soila. She is a warm and gracious person. I'm excited to have another sister!

Enjoy some pictures...
Laurie